Do you have children with your deployed spouse?

my boyfriend is in the michigan army national guard and we are expecting a little boy in about 4 weeks. he was already deployed to iraq at the end of 06 to the beginning of 08 and i waited faithfully for him. he is scheduled to be deployed again in september when our son should be around 9 months old. maybe to afghanistan this time :( i know i can do it since i have waited before, but this time, i have his baby. how can i make sure my son doesnt "forget" him because if he came home and he didnt know him, it would break my heart. and what do you do to p time when you have a little one and spouse is deployed? im not looking forward to it at all, though its still awhile away. i know im getting a webcam so that they can see each other and my bf can watch him grow while hes gone because i dont want him to miss ANYTHING. :( just wondering how i can make sure they will know each other and what im gonna do while my love is deployed ;(