Would I be unreasonable to go out with someone who lives overseas?

Oh your right very right forget him give the big heave ho I don't understand that he came to Nigeria to work and not get paid is he a fink or what and you were very silly to send him money stop that right now he made his own bed let him lie on it a relation to him is doomed as well you know it after what has happened so put it down to experience and don't fall in that trap again